Article published In: Review of Cognitive Linguistics: Online-First Articles
All flesh is equal
The influence of religious upbringing on communicative politeness in Chinese Buddhists
Published online: 21 April 2025
https://doi.org/10.1075/rcl.00219.li
https://doi.org/10.1075/rcl.00219.li
Abstract
Research has consistently shown that in comparison to some Western cultural groups, such as American and British
individuals, people from Eastern Asian cultures pay heightened attention to the hierarchical position of interaction partners,
thereby displaying greater politeness to high-ranking individuals. This study aimed to challenge the long-standing assumption that
politeness is invariably contingent upon the status of communication partners in Chinese culture. We demonstrated that due to
their religious belief in the principle that “all flesh is equal,” Chinese Buddhists exhibited consistent levels of politeness
irrespective of the status of their interlocutor. In Study 1, we investigated how Han Taoists and Buddhists responded to junior or
senior individuals when declining a request. The results indicated that while Taoists demonstrated increased politeness to senior
colleagues compared to juniors, the recipient’s status did not affect the politeness levels of Han Buddhists. Additionally, there
were no observed differences in politeness between the two groups in the junior condition. Study 2 replicated these findings among
Tibetan Buddhists. Collectively, these findings suggest that religious affiliations may exert enduring effects on important
aspects of politeness strategies and communication styles.
Keywords: culture, social hierarchies, interpersonal communication, politeness, religion, Buddhism
Article outline
- 1.Introduction
- 2.Overview of studies
- 3.Study 1
- 3.1Method
- 3.1.1Participants
- 3.1.2Materials and procedure
- 3.2Results and discussion
- 3.1Method
- 4.Study 2
- 4.1Method
- 4.1.1Participants
- 4.1.2Materials and procedure
- 4.2Results and discussion
- 4.1Method
- 5.General discussion
- Han buddhist responses
- Declining a request from a senior
- Declining a request from a Junior
- Han taoist responses
- Declining a request from a Senior
- Declining a request from a Junior
- Han buddhist responses
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