Article published In: Pragmatics: Online-First Articles
Unprompted self-disclosure in first encounter interactions
An analysis of getting-to-know-you conversations between new acquaintances
Published online: 16 December 2025
https://doi.org/10.1075/prag.24031.lai
https://doi.org/10.1075/prag.24031.lai
Abstract
Research on self-disclosure is well-established in psychology and communication studies; however, unprompted
self-disclosure as an action in conversation has not received as much attention. First encounters are often marked by social
uncertainty, and self-disclosure plays a crucial role in facilitating conversation. Using a qualitative approach informed by
insights from pragmatics and Conversation Analysis, and complemented by an analysis of frequencies of acts performed in
conversation, this study analyzed video conference recordings of twenty-two dyads of unacquainted international postgraduate
students in Malaysian universities. This paper describes how interlocutors use unprompted self-disclosure as interactional
strategy in first encounters, focusing on the patterns of self-disclosure that emerge and the functions they serve. The findings
extend understanding of how interactants navigate epistemic territories to achieve interactional goals in initial conversations,
where knowledge about one another is limited.
Article outline
- 1.Introduction
- 1.1Self-disclosure in interaction
- 1.2Self-disclosure as strategy
- 1.3Epistemic territory
- 2.Data and method
- 2.1Participants
- 2.2Data collection
- 2.3Data analysis
- 2.3.1Identifying USD
- 2.3.2Examining USD functions and epistemic territory management
- 3.Findings
- 3.1Extending a topic
- 3.2Showing affiliation
- 3.3Inviting reciprocal disclosure
- 3.4Initiating topic change
- 3.5Correcting assumptions
- 3.6Ending conversations
- 4.Conclusion
- Ethical clearance
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