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Article published In: Closeness and conflict: The discourse of domestic discord across English and Spanish-speaking communities
Edited by Diana Boxer and María Elena Placencia
[Journal of Language Aggression and Conflict 6:2] 2018
► pp. 271–298

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Intimacy matters

Uruguayan women’s refusal behavior in couples talk

 | Samford University
Published online: 26 November 2018
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https://doi.org/10.1075/jlac.00013.kai
Abstract
This chapter analyzes conflict discourse between domestic partners/couples. The interactions, recorded in Rosario, Uruguay, were part of a larger study on the refusal behavior of Uruguayan women in various spheres of life (domains). From this corpus, 41 refusal sequences were extracted in which a female participant rejected or refused her male partner in some respect (e.g. request, offer, suggestion). Refusal sequences found in couples talk positively correlated with aggravating moves and the use of upgraders, and negatively with mitigating moves and the use of downgraders. These results are discussed in terms of . 1988. “The Bulge: A Theory of Speech Behavior and Social Distance.” In Second Language Discourse: A Textbook of Current Research, edited by Jonathan Fine, 21–38. Norwood, NJ: Ablex Publishing Corporation.Google Scholar logo with link to Google Scholar Bulge theory of social distance.
Article outline
  • 1.Introduction
  • 2.Background
  • 3.Key concepts and theoretical framework
  • 4.Corpus and data collection
  • 5.Data analysis
  • 6.Results and discussion
    • 6.1Refusal behavior in comparative perspective
    • 6.2Refusal strategies
    • 6.3Topics
  • 7.Conclusions
  • Note
  • References
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